莱恩茶叶蛋斯基

The Little Prince 10

j节目文稿：And one day he advised me to do my best to make a beautiful drawing, for the edification of the children where I live. "If they travel someday," he told me," it could be useful to them. Sometimes there's no harm in postponig your work until later. But with baobabs, it's always a catastrophe. I knew one planet that was inhabited by a lazy man. He had neglected three bushes..."So, following the little prince's instructions, I have drawn that planet. I don't much like assuming the tone of a moralist. But the danger of baobabs is so little recognized, and the risks run by anyone who might get lost on an asteroid are so considerable, that for once I am making an exception to my habitual reserve. I say, "Children, watch out for baobabs!" It's to warn my friends of a danger of which they, like myself, have long been unaware that I worked so hard on this drawing. The lesson I'm teaching is worth the trouble. You may be asking, "Why are there no other drawings in this book as big as the drawing of the baobabs?" There's a simple answer: I tried but I couldn't manage it. When I drew the baobabs, I was inspired by a sense of urgency.

The Little Prince 11

节目文稿：O little prince! Gradually, this was how I came to understand your sad little life. For a long time your only entertainment was the pleasure of sunsets. I learned this new detail onthe mgrning of the fourth day, when you told me:"I really like sunsets. Let's go look at one now..." "But we have to wait..." "What for?""For the sun to set."At first you seemed quite surprised, and then you laughed at yourself. And you said to me,"I think I'm still at home!"Indeed. When it's noon in the United States, the sun, as everyone knows, is setting over France. If you could fly to France in one minute, you could watch the sunset. Unfortunately France is much too far. But on your tiny planet, all you had to do was move your chair a few feet. And you would watch the twilight whenever you wanted to..."One day I saw the sun set forty-four times!" And a little later you added, "You know when you're feeling very sad, sunsets are wonderful..."On the day of the forty-four times, were you feeling very sad?"But the little prince didn't answer.

The Little Prince 09

节目文稿：And, in fact, on the little prince's planet there were 一 as on all planets 一 good plants and bad plants. The good plants come from good seeds, and the bad plants from bad seeds. But the seeds are invisible. They sleep in the secrecy of the ground until one of them decides to wake up. Then it stretches and begins to sprout, quite timidly at first, a charming, harmless little twig reaching toward the sun. If it's a radish seed, or a rosebush seed, you can let it sprout all it likes. But if it's the seed of a bad plant, you must pull the plant up right away, as soon as you can recognize it. As it happens, there were terrible seeds on the little prince's planet... baobab seeds. The planet's soil was infested with them. Now if you attend to a baobab too late, you can never get rid of it again. It overgrows the whole planet. Its roots pierce right through. And if the planet is too small, and if there are too many baobabs, they make it burst into pieces."It's a question of discipline," the little prince told me later on. "When you've finished washing and dressing each morning, you must tend your planet. You must be sure you pull up the baobabs regularly, as soon as you can tell them apart from the rosebushes, which they closely resemble when they're very young. It's very tedious work, but very easy."

The Little Prince 08

节目文稿：Everyday I'd learn something about the little prince's planet, about his departure, about his journey. It would come quite gradually, in the course of his remarks. This was how I learned, on the third day, about the drama of the baobabs.This time, too, I had the sheep to thank, for suddenly the little prince asked me a question, as if overcome by a grave doubt."Isn't it true that sheep eat bushes?" "Yes, that's right.""Ah! I'm glad."I didn't understand why it was so important that sheep should eat bushes. But the little prince added:"And therefore they eat baobabs, too?"I pointed out to the little prince that baobabs are not bushes but trees as tall as churches, and that even if he took a whole herd of elephants back to his planet, that herd couldn't finish off a single baobab.The idea of the herd of elephants made the little prince laugh."We'd have to pile them on top of one another." But he observed perceptively:"Before they grow big, baobabs start out by being little.""True enough! But why do you want your sheep to eat little baobabs?"He answered, "Oh, come on! You know!"as if we were talking about something quite obvious. And I was forced to make a great mental effort to understand this problem all by myself.

The Little Prince 07

节目文稿：The fact is, I don't want my book to be taken lightly. Telling these memories is so painful for me. It's already been six years since my friend went away, taking his sheep with him. If I try to describe him here, it's so I won't forget him. It's sad to forget a friend. Not everyone has had a friend. And I might become like the grown-ups who are no longer interested in anything but numbers. Which is still another reason why I've bought a box of paints and some pencils. It's hard to go back to drawing, at my age, when you've never made any attempts since the one of a boa from inside and the one of a boa from outside, at the age of six! I'Il certainly try to make my portraits as true to life as possible. But I'm not entirely sure of succeeding. One drawing works, and the next no longer bears any resemblance. And I'm a little off on his height, too. In this one the little prince is too tall. And here he's too short. And l'm uncertain about the color of his suit. So I grope in one direction and another, as best I can. In the end, I'm sure to get certain more important details all wrong. But here you'll have to forgive me. My friend never explained anything. Perhaps he thought I was like himself. But I, unfortunately, cannot see a sheep through the sides of a crate. I may be a little like the grown-ups. I must have grown old.

The Little Prince 02

节目文稿：So I LIVED all alone, without anyone I could really talk to, until I had to make a crash landing in the Sahara Desert six years ago. Something in my plane's engine had broken, and since I had neither a mechanic nor passengers in the plane with me, I was preparing to undertake the difficult repair job by myself. For me it was a matter of life or death: I had only enough drinking water for eight days. The first night, then, I went to sleep on the sand a thousand miles from any inhabited country. I was more isolated than a man shipwrecked on a raft in the middle of the ocean. So you can imagine my surprise when I was awakened at daybreak by a funny little voice saying, "Please... draw me a sheep...""What?""Draw me a sheep..."I leaped up as if I had been struck by lightning. I rubbed my eyes hard. I stared. And I saw an extraordinary little fellow staring back at me very seriously. Here is the best portrait I managed to make of him, later on. But of course my drawing is much less attractive than my model. This is not my fault. My career as a painter was discour - aged at the age of six by the grown-ups, and I had never learned to draw anything except boa constrictors, outside and inside.So I stared wide-eyed at this apparition. Don't forget that I was a thousand miles from any inhabited territory. Yet this little fellow seemed to be neither lost nor dying of exhaustion, hunger, or thirst; nor did he seem scared to death. There was nothing in his appearance that sug - gested a child lost in the middle of the desert a thousand miles from any inhabited territory. When I finally man - aged to speak, I asked him,"But... what are you doing here?"And then he repeated, very slowly and very seriously,"Please... draw me a sheep..."

The Little Prince 04

节目文稿：It took me a long time to understand where he came from. The little prince, who asked me so many questions, never seemed to hear the ones I asked him. It was things he said quite at random that, bit hy bit, explained everything. For instance, when he first caught sight of my airplane (I won't draw my airplane; that would be much too complicated for me) he asked:"What's that thing over there?""It's not a thing. It flies. It's an airplane. My airplane."And I was proud to tell him I could fly. Then he exclaimed:"What! You fell out of the sky?" "Yes," I said modestly. "Oh! That's funny..." And thg little prince broke into a lovely peal of laughter, which annoyed me a good deal. I like my misfortunes to be taken seriously. Then he added, "So you fell out of the sky, too. What planet are you from?"That was when I had the first clue to the mystery of his presence, and I questioned him sharply. "Do you come from another planet?"But he made no answer. He shook his head a little, still staring at my airplane. "Of course, that couldn't have brought you from very far..." And he fell into a reverie that lasted a long while. Then, taking my sheep out of his pocket, he plunged into contemplation of his treasure. You can imagine how intrigued I was by this hint about "other planets." I tried to learn more: "Where do you come from, little fellow? Where is this 'where I live' of yours? Where wil you be taking my sheep?"After a thoughtful silence he answered, "The good thing about the crate you've given me is that he can use it for a house after dark.""Of course. And if you're good, I'll give you a rope to tie him up during the day. And a stake to tie him to."This proposition seemed to shock the little prince. "Tie him up? What a funny idea!""But if you don't tie him up, he'll wander of somewhere and get lost." My friend burst out laughing again."Where could he go?""Anywhere. Straight ahead..."Then the little prince remarked quite seriously, "Even if he did, everything's so small where I live!" And he added, perhaps a little sadly, "Straight ahead, you can't go very far."

The Little Prince 03

节目文稿：In the face of an overpowering mystery, you don't dare disobey. Absurd as it seemed, a thousand miles from all inhabited regions and in danger of death, I took a scrap of paper and a pen out of my pocket. But then I remembered that I had mostly studied geography, history, arithmetic, and grammar, and I told the little fellow (rather crossly) that I didn't know how to draw.He replied,"That doesn't matter. Draw me a sheep."Since I had never drawn a sheep, I made him one of the only two drawings I knew how to make - the one of the boa con - strictor from outside. And I was as - tounded to hear the little fellow answer:"No! No! I don't want an elephant inside a boa constrictor. A boa constrictor is very dangerous, and an elephant would get in the way. Where I live, everything is very small. I need a sheep. Draw me a sheep."So then I made a drawing.He looked at it carefuly, and then said,"No. This one is already quite sick. Make another."I made another drawing. My friend gave me a kind, indulgent smile:"You can see for yourself... that's not a sheep, it's a ram. It has horns..."So I made my third drawing, but it was rejected, like the others:"This one's too old. I want a sheep that will live a long time." So then, impatiently, since I was in a hurry to start work on my engine, I scribbled this drawing, and added,"This is just the crate. The sheep you want is inside." But I was amazed to see my young critic's face light up."That's just the kind I wanted! Do you think this sheep will need a lot of grass?""Why?""Because where I live, everything is very small...""There's sure to be enough. I've given you a very small sheep."He bent over the drawing. "Not so small as all that... Look! He's gone to sleep..."And that's how I made the acquaintance of the little prince.

The Little Prince 06

节目文稿：If l've told you these details about Asteroid B -612 and if l've given you its number, it is on account of the grown-ups. Grown-ups like numhers. When you tell them about a new friend, they never ask questions about what really matters. They never ask: "What does his voice sound like?" "What games does he like best?" "Does he collect butterflies?" They ask: "How old is he?" "How many brothers does he have?" "How much does he weigh?" "How much money does his father make?" Only then do they think they know him. If you tell grown-ups, "I saw a beautiful red brick house, with geraniums at the windows and doves on the roof...," they won't be able to imagine such a house. You have to tell them, "I saw a house worth a hundred thousand francs. "Then they exclaim, "What a pretty house!"So if you tell them: "The proof of the little prince's existence is that he was delightful, that he laughed, and that he wanted a sheep. When someone wants a sheep, that proves he exists," they shrug their shoulders and treat you like a child! But if you tell them, "The planet he came from is Asteroid B-612," then they'll be convinced, and they won't bother you with their questions. That's the way they are. You must not hold it against them. Children should be very understanding of grown-ups.But, of course, those of us who understand life couldn't care less about numbes! I should have liked to begin this story like a fairy tale. I should have liked to say:"Once upon a time there was a little prince who lived on a planet hardly any bigger than he was, and who needed a friend..." For those who understand life, that would sound much truer.

The Little Prince 05

节目文稿：Тhat was how I had learned a second very important thing, which was that the planet he came from was hardly bigger than a house!That couldn't surprise me much. I knew very well that except for the huge planets like Earth, Jupiter, Mars, and Venus, which have been given names, there are hundreds of others that are sometimes so small that it's very difficult to see them through a telescope. When an astronomer discovers one of them, he gives it a number instead of a name. For instance, he would call it "Asteroid 325."I have serious reasons to believe that the planet the little prince came from is Asteroid B-612. This asteroid has been sighted only once by telescope, in 1909 by a Turkish astronomer, who had then made a formal demonstration of his discovery at an International Astronomical Congress. But no one had believed him on account of the way he was dressed. Grown-ups are like that.Fortunately for the reputation of Asteroid B-612, a Turkish dictator ordered his people, on pain of death, to wear European clothes. The astronomer repeated his demonstration in 1920, wearing a very elegant suit. And this time everyone believed him.

The Little Prince 01

节目文稿：Once when I was six I saw a magnificent picture in a book about the jungle, called True Stories. It showed a boa constrictor swallowing a wild beast. Here is a copy of the picture.In the book it said:"Boa constrictors swallow their prey whole, without chewing. Afterward they are no longer able to move, and they sleep during the six months of their digestion."In those days I thought a lot about jungle adventures, and eventualy managed to make my first drawing, using a colored pencil. My drawing Number One looked like this:I showed the grown-ups my mastepiece, and I asked them if my drawing scared them.They answered,"Why be scared of a hat?"My drawing was not a picture of a hat. It was a picture of a boa constrictor digesting an elephant. Then I drew the inside of the boa constrictor, so the grown-ups could understand. They always need explanations. My drawing Number Two looked like this:The grown-ups advised me to put away my drawings of boa constrictors, outside or inside, and apply myself instead to geography, history, arithmetic, and grammar. That is why I abandoned, at the age of six, a magnificent career as an artist. I had been discouraged by the failure of my drawing Number One and of my drawing Number Two. Grown-ups never understand anything by themselves, and it is exhausting for children to have to provide explanations over and over again.So then I had to choose another career, and I learned to pilot airplanes. I have flown almost everywhere in the world. And, as a matter of fact, geography has been a big help to me. I could tell China from Arizona at first glance, which is very useful if you get lost during the night.So I have had, in the course of my life, lots of encounters with lots of serious people. I have spent lots of time with grown-ups. I have seen them at close range... which hasn’t much improved my opinion of them.Whenever I encountered a grown-up who seemed to me at all enlightened, I would experiment on him with my drawing Number One, which I have always kept. I wanted to see if he really understood anything. But he would always answer,"That’s a hat." Then I wouldn’t talk about boa constrictors or jungles or stars. I would put myself on his level and talk about bridge and golf and politics and neckties. And my grown-up was glad to know such a reasonable person.

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【莱恩知不道】为什么有的人能一直睡？

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【莱恩知不道】什么是「纯粹接触效应」？

各位听众大家好，欢迎打开本期节目，我是蛋斯基。久违了，久等了。正如歌里唱的 “等了好久终于等到今天。”感谢各位粉丝的关注和耐心。我这不定期更新的老毛病要改改了。今天跟大家科普一下，什么是纯粹接触效应。首先请大家回想一下，你们有没有这样的经历，比如你有个同事叫蛋斯基，你第一次见到他，感觉辣眼睛，长得有点丑。仔细一看，那是真丑。可是你上班和他工位挨着。每天低头不见抬头见，左看右看阴魂不散；日复一日，年复一年，你渐渐发觉，蛋斯基目光如炬，志存高远；双眼深邃，一眼万年。总之就是，越看越好看！这就是纯粹接触效应。鉴于时不时有粉丝说我，不务正业，不讲英文。我就先把它的英文定义朗读一遍：The mere-exposure effect is a psychological phenomenon by which people tend to develop a preference for things merely because they are familiar with them. In social psychology, this effect is sometimes called the familiarity principle. The effect has been demonstrated with many kinds of things, including words, Chinese characters, paintings, pictures of faces, geometric figures, and sounds. In studies of interpersonal attraction, the more often someone sees a person, the more pleasing and likeable they find that person.指单纯增加接触的次数，就能慢慢产生亲近感效果的事。这个一味增加的接触，无论是好是坏，或者出现的本人是好是坏，只要反复出现在你面前，你们之间就极有可能产生愈来愈亲的亲近感。对人际交往吸引力的研究发现，我们见到某个人的次数越多，就越觉得此人招人喜爱。这也就是我开头说的，一个接触时间长了，见的多了，就不觉得ta难看了，有时候觉得还挺好看。乔纳·伯杰写过一本书 名叫《传染》。沃顿商学院市场营销学教授"纯粹接触效应"：没有任何理由，在人们眼前出现的频率越多，好感度也就越高。因为熟悉，所以喜欢。匹兹堡大学的教授（Richard Moreland ）所做的实验-四个美女节目背景音乐：Vexento - Never Letting Go布衣乐队 - 我爱你心爱的姑娘***节目部分内容参考乔纳·伯杰的《传染》一书和知乎网***节目文稿由「主播：莱恩茶叶蛋」编写和整理。

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【莱恩知不道】“消费主义”的立体画像

在这个普天同庆的日子里，我首先祝愿我们伟大的祖国繁荣富强，人们幸福安康。一些老听众都知道，我做节目呢，有一个特点就是节目内容和我的电台名字并不是始终保持一致。因为，说英语需要一定的门槛，而且是有一点学习的成分在里面。而我也更喜欢和大家聊一些我感兴趣的话题，分享自己的一些看法。一家之言，不捧不喷。今天我想和大家聊聊和消费主义相关的话题。1. 是什么：消费主义，是西方发达国家普遍流行的一种社会道德现象，是指导和调节人们在消费方面的行动和关系的原则、思想、愿望、情绪及相应的实践的总称。其社会大多数人的多数行为是追求体面的消费，渴求无节制的物质享受和消遣，并把这些当作生活的目的和人生的价值。消费主义表现在“对物质产品毫无必要的更新换代、大量占有和消耗各种能源和资源，随意抛弃仍然具有使用价值的产品，采用难以承受的生活方式，等等”。在这种界定之下，消费主义的实质上是拜物主义，通过对物的消费和占有，体现他们生活方式、身份地位和优越感，他们无所节制的消费污染了环境，过量地消耗了资源，带来了极大的负外部性，但他们却没有为此付出代价。消费（Consume）一词可追溯至14世纪，意同挥霍、用尽；而在16世纪出现的“消费者”（consumer）一词，也有相似的负面意思。2. 消费主义是人类社会科学技术极为先进，生产高度发达的结果，并与资本主义联系在一起。《人类简史》这本书，相信大家都听过，这里面写到消费主义出现的部分，我在这里截取出来和大家分享一下：“………正是因为农业释放出了数十亿的人力，由工厂和办公室吸纳，才开始像雪崩一样有各种新产品倾泻而出。比起以前，人类生产出更多钢铁，制作出更多服装，兴建出更多建筑，还制造出令人瞠目结舌、超出想象的各种产品，像是灯泡、手机、数码相机和洗碗机。人类有史以来第一次，生产超出了需求。也是因为如此，产生了一个全新的问题：谁要来买这些产品？现代资本主义经济如果想要存活，就得不断提高产量，很像是鲨鱼，如果不一直游动就会窒息。然而，光是生产还不够。生产出来之后，还得有人买，否则业者或投资人都得关门大吉。为了避免这种灾难，确保不管什么新产品都有人买账，就出现了一种新的伦理观：消费主义。有史以来，人类的生活多半颇为困窘，因此“节俭”就成了过去所高喊的口号，像是清教徒或斯巴达人，都以简朴律己而闻名。所以，如果是正直的人，就该避免奢侈、从来不浪费食物，裤子破了该缝缝补补，而不是去买条新的。只有王公贵族，才能公然把这种价值观抛在一旁，无所顾忌地炫耀他们的财富。然而，消费主义的美德就是消费更多的产品和服务，鼓励所有人应该善待自己、宠爱自己，就算因为过度消费而慢慢走上绝路，也是在所不惜。“这里我说一下，这里面说，“只有王公贵族，才能无所顾忌地炫耀他们的财富。” 实际上就是在建立一种优越感。但消费主义就试图在让人淡化这样的财富差异和阶级观念。这也就是为什么，你经常看到商家打着“XXX同款”的噱头来让你乐意扫码支付，而内心又感到前所未有的满足感。类似的手段还有明星带货，穿着某家的某款衣服和鞋子出街然后被拍到，再被商家引导一波消费，穿着同款的人会觉得自己身上有了偶像的气质，也站在了潮流的前端-也就是现在大家常称作的“粉丝经济”。 3. 刚才我们说到“潮流”这个东西。潮流本身也是建立一种优越感。通常潮流都是在社会所谓上层精英阶层，俗称有钱，有闲，有名的人。他们要展示自己的不同，和绝大多数底层平庸的人区别开来，必然要从自己生活的各个方面花心思。然后，他们就出街也好，出入各种高级场所也好，就会有人拍。拍出来必然会引起众多人的追捧和效仿。然后这些人辛苦建立起来的优越感也就随之消失了。然后，他们就开始建立新一轮的优越感。这也就是为什么这种潮流更新换代的速度极快，潮来得快，自然过时的也很快。4. 刚才提到，消费主义的美德就是消费更多的产品和服务，鼓励所有人应该善待自己、宠爱自己，就算因为过度消费而慢慢走上绝路，也是在所不辞。现在我们买某个东西，更多的是买它的符号价值，比如这个牌子、代表的阶层等。所以，商家也愿意砸钱堆砌商品的附加价值。最经典的案例不用说了，“钻石恒久远，一颗永流传。” 其实钻石本身就没什么价值，当和爱情捆绑到一起之后，仿佛结婚不买个钻戒你都不好意思跟人提结婚。 本来只是一个商品，却成了众多老岳父岳母验证一个男人是否真爱自己闺女的标准。再举一个例子，上次我和几个朋友逛商场，有两家电动汽车的店面。一家就是中规中矩地摆几辆车，然后周围是穿西装的男士给潜在客户介绍相关信息。而另一家则请了几个模特身材，颜值在线的年轻姑娘，统一身着白色长裙，立马这姑娘这么好看，车也差不到那去的错觉。如果，我有预算，打算买电车，我会更愿意在这家听工作人员为我介绍车的性能等。5. 现在商家对消费主义的宣传到了丧心病狂，无以复加的地步。各种大大小小的节日，主题都只有三个字：“买买买！“ 西方典型的代表是圣诞节和感恩节”黑五“。我们国内则将此进一步发扬。某宝和够东最突出。最早的双11，就是普通的不能再普通的一天，生生让你们的马云爸爸搞成了全民买买买的狂欢节，2019年天猫成交额超过100亿只用了96秒。我不知道大家怎么有这么多钱，我感觉自己又拖了国家的后腿。后来的狗东 618， 919，双12都是买买买。然后，人们沉浸在消费给自己带来的愉悦感的时候，已经被商家的消费主义温和地洗了脑。什么“20岁地裙子40岁穿上没有任何意义。“ ”你的钱没有离开你，只是换了一种方式陪伴你。“ 听起来就像问候提出这句口号的人的全家。没钱花用信用卡、”花呗“透支消费。消费主义下，消费的不是商品和服务的使用价值，而是它们的符号象征意义。“消费主义是指这样一种生活方式：消费的目的不是为了实际需求的满足，而是不断追求被制造出来、被刺激起来的欲望的满足。6. 消费主义下，人们购买一件商品，是买它的符号价值。比方说戴了和一样的手表，就觉得自己是街上最靓的gai。然后，回过头来，仔细想想，这些东西除了能满足人一时的虚荣心甚至暂时地麻痹自己，给我们的生活带来了什么实质性的改变吗？我们的生活质量会因此提高吗？反而，你超前消费会将你当下的生活拖入泥潭。每天穿着AJ，你就成了乔丹吗？穿着陈冠希同款，你能拍得一手好视频吗？频繁打卡各类网红书店，文青地打卡，自己读的书就变多了吗？几万块的包和几百块的包用料上又有什么不同呢？能花几万块钱买个包的人，看重的根本不是它的质量如何，而是符号价值。商家生产商品，也故意让它过一段时间就被淘汰和更新。《人类简史》也提到说：“制造商设计产品的时候，刻意让它在一段短时间后就被淘汰；而且就算旧型号明明就足以满足各种需求，厂商还是会不断推出新型号，我们如果不跟进，就仿佛显得落伍。“ 可能有的人会说了，我花钱买这个东西我就是喜欢，觉得它好看。那你可以再想想，谁让你觉得好看的？还是商家的洗脑。举个例子吧，今天出门我准备这样穿；因为这是现在比较潮的搭配，谁觉得潮呢？大家觉得它潮。大家是谁？女孩子的眉毛，现在要这样画，因为现在流行这样画。在每个人都追求异化的时候，其实呈现的是一种高度趋同化。举个我自己的例子，我平常买鞋和衣服喜欢买一些国产品牌里的稍贵一些的产品，而不选择钩子和阿迪奥斯，因为我觉得这样穿和别人撞衫的几率会更低。我也是想让自己看起来不一样对吧？这也说明了另一个问题，就是你看似在自己选择穿什么做什么，而实际上你都是被动地选择，你没有主动权。我再举个例子，我之前为了公司年会穿正装，花不少钱去订制了一套西装，那师傅的手艺的确精湛，我穿着感觉自己还挺帅的，也增加了几分自信。但是，年会穿过一次，后来面试穿过一次，就一直挂在衣柜里。我平常没法穿，因为别人会觉得我是中介。7. 消费主义下，消费水平成了衡量一个人成功与否，成就大小、社会地位高低的硬指标。我想说的是，我们要认清商家的这些洗脑套路，不要过度地被洗脑，虽然我们都处于这个消费主义的社会无法独善其身，但自己要掌握主动。我穿衣服会穿我自己觉得舒服的，干净整洁就行，而不是别人觉得什么潮我穿什么，什么土我就不穿。女孩子学会接受不化妆的自己，离开滤镜的自己。好看不是王道，好看大多数时候也是别人觉得，不是吗？去买那些可以让自己生活更加舒适，实用价值更高的商品。“无物不可以被消费”的时代，我们要抓住自己的主动权，而不是被动接受，被投喂。感谢大家收听本期的节目，我是蛋斯基，咱们下期节目再见。节目背景音乐：FARAZZY - Shanghai SunsetTeen Daze - LateTrazer/ Lightscape - Awake***节目部分内容摘自《人类简史》和知乎***节目文稿由「主播：莱恩茶叶蛋」编写和整理。

【莱恩知不道】谈论种族问题前，先囤200斤卫生纸。

今天主要说了三个问题。1. 谈种族问题前，先弄清楚一个问题。white people, colored people这两个群体称呼，本身就是种族主义。白色不是颜色吗？既然白色是一种颜色，那么白人也是有色人种。2. 美国人为什么对卫生纸有执念？那是社会恐慌的开始。3. 戴口罩防病毒传播，这是一个科学问题，和文化差异没关系。

【蛋斯基·吐不槽】春节-飘零的聚拢：中国人的仪式感

春节-中国人的仪式感1. 回家过年生存指南马上就要过年了，大家回家过年的心情迫不及待，这就是最新一季的回家的诱惑。今天我有一同事，她呢就跟我说，想回家过年，但也害怕回去。兄弟姐妹多，往外给不少压岁钱，这是小事。这爷爷奶奶爸爸妈妈大姨二姨三舅四姐夫免不了又是一顿逼婚，这让我很烦恼。春节作为我们中国人最为重要的节日，其意义自然不用赘述。但是，近几年啊，回家过年，成了一个让人又爱又恨的事儿。为什么呢，让人爱不用多说了，和家人团聚共度佳节，走亲戚拜年，见老友喝酒，是吧。但是让人恨是为什么呢，也正是因为这些过年的固定环节，衍生出来的。比如，你的七大姑八大姨在这个时候都会异常的关心你。问学习，问工作，问婚事，问房车，对吧。 为了让大家平稳渡过春节，蛋斯基为大家总结了回家过年生存指南迷你版，实战性比较强。关键词1: 前两天，过两天。回家啊，碰上亲戚街坊，肯定都被问过同一个问题： 哎，哪天回来的？ 哪天走？ 其实他们不是真的关心你具体哪天回怎么回，几号走。就是客套客套。你也不用认真地说什么，我前天回来的。这票真不好买啊，我让好几个朋友帮我候补车票才抢到票。 对方也不想知道地这么详细。遇到这样的问题，你就说： 啊，我前天回来的，过两天走。关键词2: “我还是个孩子”这么多年，想必大家也都有体会。家长们说的话，你品你心品，就不难发现 很多时候是矛盾的。比如他们说：’儿子，在爸妈眼里你永远都是一个孩子。” 有时也会说：“孩子，你已经不是小孩了。能不能长点心？” 过年要压岁钱，这一招是能发挥作用的。给爸妈拜完年了，你就问，“爸妈，没红包吗？ ” 你都多大了，还要红包。“ ” 你们不是说，在你们眼里我永远都是个孩子吗？“关键词3： 反客为主 一击必杀这一招主要应对来自七大姑八大姨的各种盘问。如果你还在上学， 典型问题是：期末考怎么样？能上重点吗？准备考哪个大学？学什么专业？毕业工作找到了吗？ 如果你是上班族， 典型提问则是： 每月赚多少钱？有年终奖吗？什么时候升值？有对象了吗？房子买了吗？针对此类问题，你要在他们占据上风之前，先出招。表弟，找着对象了吗？什么时候带回来看看，哥也替你把把关。结婚了吗？房子买了？生孩子了吗？什么时候生二胎？孩子报了几个补习班？ 你这一顿灵魂逼问，对方绝对感到压力，并暗挑大拇哥，是个狠人。2. 春节的仪式感春节是中国最重大的节日。我们常说生活要有仪式感。春节就是仪式感。仪式感是什么，它就是人们表达内心情感最直接的方式。法国童话《小王子》里说，仪式感就是使某一天与其他日子不同，使某一时刻与其他时刻不同。我们现在总抱怨说，现在过年没内味了。其实，它在我们国人心中的地位从未动摇过。只不过是随着社会发展和人们生活方式的变化，春节也在进化，我们只是没有觉察到。春节的意义也是在几千年的发展演变下，内涵变得丰富和饱满。我们总在怀念小时候的春节，那时的过年是什么：是全家人围坐在一起，是长辈们的笑脸，是爸妈的压岁钱，是零点的饺子，是院里红色的鞭炮屑，是除夕夜放在床头的新衣服。这一年中，任何时候都可以妥协，唯独这一次绝对不行。家是一定要回的。孩子们在这几天，连作业都可以名正言顺地扔一边。这些场景，可能有些我们已经再难见到。可你有没有想过，这背后更厚重的意义是什么？这一切背后的团圆，又哪儿是那么轻易就得来的呢？对我们来讲，春节就像是一年到头的恩赐一样。在这时候，停下手头的工作，抛开所有的不快和烦恼，回家，与家人团聚是唯一的_____。这就是对仪式感最生动最立体的诠释。所以说，我们的生活需要多一些仪式感，来提醒我们，生活不止眼前的苟且，还有诗和远方。过年了，快回家吧。春节快乐！*文章经原作者【莱恩茶叶蛋】许可，允许使用和播放。 *版权归原作者【莱恩茶叶蛋】所有。

【蛋斯基·心文】一场雨先于我到达

***文章经原作者「莱恩茶叶蛋」许可，允许使用并播出。版权归原作者「主播：莱恩茶叶蛋」所有一场雨先于我到达 - 青岛雨记今天醒来时，透过窗帘间的缝隙，只感到微微的光，以为天还未全亮。摸起枕头边的手机，已接近十点了。于是急忙起身，跑到窗边，拉开窗帘发现，青岛下雨了。我迅速洗漱完毕，穿好衣服，将房间巡视一番，确保整洁。又从茶几上的笔筒里拿起笔，给房东留了字条，感谢他这两日对我这位陌生来客的照料。背上双肩包，走到门口，转过身来，又扫视房间数秒，开门离去。走到楼外时发现，雨下的很急。我站在檐下，望着雾蒙蒙的青岛的天，能见度很低。听着路上来往的车辆疾驰而过，一瞬间感到此刻的青岛平添了几分烟雨气。行人撑着伞，步履匆忙。我没有伞，我向来是不喜欢带伞的。像某位名人讲过的：你说你喜欢下雨，可雨天你却要打伞。这些人究竟是不是真的喜欢雨呢？打伞的人也不一定就说了假话。想到这里，我竟然噗地笑出了声。如此说来，我一定是十分喜欢下雨天了。如同现在，我不会认为是雨的缘故，对我的出行造成了不便。反倒感谢这雨，让我得以见到众游人不能轻易邂逅的别样景致。把手装进裤兜，踏出第一步，伴随着是这行走的一天。公交车上，在经历了几轮曲线运动后，到站下车 --- 来到了八大关。正如其名，每一条街道均以中国古代长城的关隘命名，俗称八大关（其实有十条）相比于人类的健忘，这些雄关要塞，像一位位孤独的老者，凝望着大漠长河，洗尽铅华，日益斑驳；而比起人类的念旧，他们又以独特的视角，捕捉着现代生活的蛛丝马迹。与这其中罗列的是不同时期的欧式建筑。依然是在雨中漫步，进入景区还没来得及沉浸其中，就感到内急。跟随指示牌，不久就找到了卫生间。大概是为了与周边的建筑风格保持一致，公共卫生间的外观也颇具艺术感。工作人员很是周到，在卫生间的门前铺了草席，在雨天，这样的做法可以更大限度地防止摔倒。解后，沿路继续行进。一路走，一路看，走走看看，看看停停；再奇美的事物，看多了也不觉得稀奇了。在过了不知多长时间后，我对周边‘大异其趣’的建筑展览的兴趣，归于平庸。我意识到，是时候离开了。我想，我是要在这兴致尚存，尚没有消耗殆尽前停止。因为我的眼睛已经搜集了足够多的素材，将这一切压缩整合，在脑中储存起来。再看将要厌烦了。酒虽香，闻多了也是会醉人的。爱喝咖啡的人，也提醒自己一天只喝一杯即可；喝茶不懂克制，也令人飘飘然好似‘通仙灵’，古人就深谙其道，‘七碗吃不得也’。老祖宗讲：过，犹不及。凡事都要遵循这样一个道理：不及是不及，过了火仍是不及，甚至还不如不及。返回途中，脚步明显急促了。走着走着，一段草席再次映入眼帘，似曾相识。向左望去，果然是刚进去过的卫生间。心想，这也是一种‘缘分’了。于是，进去再续前缘。临走又回头多打量几眼：不知道何时能再回到这一处风景，进入同一处卫生间。这一路上擦肩而过，甚至有过猝不及防的眼神交换的，零星的游客，何时会再次遇见？在哪里遇见？再碰到怕是也不记得曾经见过了。从八大关出来，脚步漫无目的，只是零散地走了几个地方。期间，把午饭仓促解决。走进一家商场，进门处有一家咖啡厅，名字得到了我的青睐— ‘一间万象‘，自作多情地赋予内涵：驻足方寸之间，领略世事万象。我径直走了进去，整面墙的落地窗，视野开阔。在前台点过一壶别具特色的崂山绿茶后，寻位坐下，有感，写下这些文字。喝完最后一盏茶，停笔。雨还在下。2019年12月25日于青岛

【蛋斯基·美文】Why Beautiful Things Make Us Happy?(1)

**本期文章所有权归原作者所有背景音乐：Painless Destiny - Without You I Am Dying--F----M----1----7----6----8----4----0--- 欢迎持续关注 电 台：英语·相对论 主 播：莱恩茶叶蛋斯基

【莱恩知不道】Vol.3_什么是‘习得性无助’？

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【蛋斯基早班车】2. Keeping Pleasant

【蛋斯基早班车】1. Summer

蛋斯基早班车，开车。

【蛋斯基读新闻】Trump's tabloid past may come back to haunt him.

英文中没有'吃醋', a touch of vinegar是什么意思?

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【蛋斯基·美文】Benediction-Tagore

Benediction祝福选自泰戈尔《新月集》翻译：郑振铎Bless this little heart, this white soul that has won the kiss of heaven for our earth.祝福这个小心灵，这个洁白的灵魂，他为我们的大地，赢得了天的接吻。He loves the light of the sun, he loves the sight of his mother&`&s face.他爱日光，他爱见他妈妈的脸。He has not learned to despise the dust, and to hanker after gold.他没有学会厌恶尘土而渴求黄金。Clasp him to your heart and bless him.紧抱他在你的心里，并且祝福他。He has come into this land of an hundred cross-roads.他已来到这个歧路百出的大地上了。I know not how he chose you from the crowd, came to your door, and grasped your hand to ask his way.我不知道他怎么从群众中选出你来，来到你的门前抓住你的手问路。He will follow you, laughing and talking, and not a doubt in his heart.他笑着，谈着，跟着你走，心里没有一点儿疑惑。Keep his trust, lead him straight and bless him.不要辜负他的信任，引导他到正路，并且祝福他。Lay your hand on his head, and pray that though the waves underneath grow threatening, yet the breath from above may come and fill his sails and waft him to the haven of peace.把你的手按在他的头上，祈求着：底下的波涛虽然险恶，然而从上面来的风，会鼓起他的船帆，送他到和平的港口的。Forget him not in your hurry, let him come to your heart and bless him.不要在忙碌中把他忘了，让他来到你的心里，并且祝福他。**本期文章所有权归原作者所有--F----M----1----7----6----8----4----0--- 欢迎持续关注 电 台：英语·相对论 主 播：莱恩茶叶蛋斯基

【蛋斯基·心文】从星河明苑到城市便捷-马克杯·里

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