It’s been way too long, so Kail and Becky finally sit down for a real catch-up and nothing is off limits. From seasonal depression and holiday heaviness to Kail’s entire house getting hit with influenza A, the girls get honest about what this time of year actually feels like behind the highlight reels.Kail opens up about the emotional (and literal) weight of five-hour custody drives, missing kid events, and trying to hold it all together with seven kids and nonstop sports. Becky shares updates on baby Becks Florida travels, her changing relationship with motherhood, and why Miss Rachel absolutely counts as survival.The conversation spirals (in the best way) into audiobook commitments, Barnes & Noble rebrands, kid milestones, performative good deeds, fake influencers, childhood letters to soldiers, and reminiscing on Becky's Uber days?The girls celebrate Karma & Chaos taking home TWO Signal Awards! We can't thank you enough for your support!An “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” listener write-in that sparks their first disagreement ever.It’s chaotic. It’s comforting. It’s exactly why you’re here.MERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Everyday Dose:Get 61% off your first Coffee+ Starter Kit, a free A2 Probiotic Creamer, with over $100 in free gifts by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout.Revolve: Whether it’s a weekend away, a big night out, or a holiday party – your dream wardrobe is just one click away. Head to REVOLVE.com/KARMA, shop my edit, and take 15% off your first order with code KARMA. Offer ends December 23rd.SKIMS: Shop our favorite pajamas at SKIMS.com. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows And if you’re looking for the perfect gifts for everyone on your list - the SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open at SKIMS.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Kail and Becky are joined by Enrique, the TikTok creator who shot his shot to get on the pod. He shares how he accidentally built a following by covering online drama and Teen Mom lore, and what it’s like feeling “raised by MTV.”Kail opens up about how she really got cast on 16 & Pregnant, what was actually scripted vs. recreated, the truth about those voiceovers and reunions, and how reality TV impacted her mental health and friendships. Becky gives her honest take on watching Kail grow from peak chaos into a business-minded mom, while still staying the same unfiltered friend.From ranking Kail’s baby dads, to dog-ashes-as-grandma-ashes karma, and a chaotic Teen Mom RV road trip pitch, this episode is equal parts behind-the-scenes tea, emotional honesty, and pure unhinged group chat energy.Follow Enrique hereMERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaPerelel: Exclusive for our listeners, new customers can enjoy 20% off their first order with code: KARMRA Visit perelelhealth.comBooking.com: Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Get Seen. Get Booked on Booking.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
ENCORE: In the premiere episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into the ups and downs of their long-time friendship and discuss what they learned after years apart. Reflecting on the past five years, they address rumors (are they in love with each other?), clarify the original timing for their podcast's launch, and share a heartfelt message about their vision for the show.Black Friday Sale on merch is running through 12/2/25 Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! SKIMS: Shop our favorite pajamas at SKIMS.com. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select podcast in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows - if you’re looking for the perfect gifts for everyone on your list - the SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open at SKIMS.com.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaButcher Box: As an exclusive offer, our listeners can get free turkey or ham in their first box, or choose ground beef for life - PLUS $20 off your first order. Go to ButcherBox.com/KARMA to choose your offer and get this limited-time deal, with free shipping always.Booking.com: Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Get Seen. Get Booked on Booking.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Kail and Becky kick off this episode of Karma and Chaos with late-start banter that turns into something real: food insecurity, SNAP benefits, and how Kail is stocking her Delaware egg stand with pantry staples so local families don’t go hungry. From there, the chaos takes over with Kail’s deep dive into the mob and space conspiracies. The girls wrap the episode with an “Is it Karma or is it Chaos?” listener story about divorced parents possibly getting back together (and why it’s never the kid’s fault).To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comMERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Willie’s: Order now at drinkwillies.com and use code KARMA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95, and enjoy life in the high country.Revolve: Whether it’s a weekend away, a big night out, or just a little style refresh – your dream wardrobe is just one click away. Head to REVOLVE.com/KARMA, shop my edit, and take 15% off your first order with code KARMA. Booking.com: Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Get Seen. Get Booked on Booking.comShopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma Everyday Dose: Exciting news! You can now find Everyday Dose in Target stores across the country. Celebrate with a Buy-One-Get-One deal. Just buy any two Everyday Dose products at a Target store near you, and they’ll pay you back for one. Visit everydaydose.com/CHAOS for more details.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week the girls are spiraling through: kid eczema (gut talk, steroid drama, mom guilt), sports-mom sidelines when you don’t know the plays (but you are the loudest), and a Louvre heist hot take no one asked for. We debrief Verity, argue about waking sleeping babies, and settle the eternal debates: is sharing toothbrushes disgusting or a part of being in a comitted relationship?The episode closes with an Is It Karma or Is It Chaos? where a listener is worried about karma after potential infidelity?It’s cozy. It’s unhinged. It’s home. It's the chaos you know and love.MERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaQuince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. Perelel: Exclusive for our listeners, new customers can enjoy 20% off their first order with code: KARMRA Visit perelelhealth.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
It’s a cozy-chaotic catch-up with Kail and Becky coffee in hand, baby cameos, and a big question: is college still worth it?They unpack college vs. trade routes, why study abroad can be life-changing and what queer-teen safety looks like at sleepovers. They dig into student-athlete scholarship politics, current reads , boundaries with draining friends, budgeting wins plus a listener letter you don’t want to miss.To submit your Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comWinter merch has launched! Get yours now at www.killrentertainment.com/shopFollow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Everyday Dose: Exciting news! You can now find Everyday Dose in Target stores across the country. Celebrate with a Buy-One-Get-One deal. Just buy any two Everyday Dose products at a Target store near you, and they’ll pay you back for one. Visit everydaydose.com/CHAOS for more details.ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS holiday shop at www.skims.com and let them know we sent you by choosing podcast and Karma and Chaos in the drop down menu that follows.Booking.com: Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Get Seen. Get Booked on Booking.com.Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer, our listeners can get free turkey or ham in their first box, or choose ground beef for life - PLUS $20 off your first order. Go to ButcherBox.com/KARMA to choose your offer and get this limited-time deal, with free shipping always.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Kail and Becky are back with a cozy dose of chaos. From spontaneous game-night adventures to gratitude check-ins that get real, they open up about parenthood, partnership, and finding peace in the mess. There’s laughter, a little online drama, and one spicy “Karma or Chaos” confession you don’t want to miss.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFollow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersMERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowryThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Everyday Dose: Exciting news! You can now find Everyday Dose in Target stores across the country. Celebrate with a Buy-One-Get-One deal. Just buy any two Everyday Dose products at a Target store near you, and they’ll pay you back for one. Visit everydaydose.com/CHAOS for more details.Rainbeau Curves: to shop Rainbeau Curves at bit.ly/rainsocial Booking.com: Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Get Seen. Get Booked on Booking.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week Kail & Becky are catching you up on all the goings on! Becky updates us on how she's feeling and she is determined to keep her eyes dry this episode! Kail chats with us about some lip updates and shares why AI is really getting scarier. Of course there is always some Karma and some Chaos with your submissions! MERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Revolve: Shop at REVOLVE.com/KARMA and use code KARMA for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartnerRainbeau Curves: shop Rainbeau Curves at bit.ly/rainsocial SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS at www.skims.com and let them know we sent you by choosing podcast and Karma and Chaos in the drop down menu that follows.Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaOPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
TW: This episode has mentions of miscarriages.On this week's episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky are back with some sad updates. The ladies come together to offer perspective and support to one another through the challenging times they are each facing. Later in the episode the ladies answer some hard hitting questions like would you let your child skip out on a scholarship for love? And as always there's a dash of Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos with your submissions!Don't forget to get your merch!To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS holiday collection at www.skims.com and let them know we sent you by choosing podcast and Karma and Chaos in the drop down menu that follows.BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.Willie’s: Order now at drinkwillies.com and use code KARMA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95, and enjoy life in the high country.Perelel: Exclusive for our listeners, new customers can enjoy 20% off their first order with code: KARMRA Visit perelelhealth.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week Kail and Becky are coming in HOT with the chaos and maybe some crying. Things may sound a little different since we are mixing things up and recording in a new setting. The ladies show a new side of their relationship this week; their sisterly dynamic sometimes gets a little feisty like when they discuss if matcha tastes like dirt, does Becky have street smarts and of course so much more.For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFollow Becky at instagram.com/hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersTo keep up with Kail subscribe to her newsletter at kaillowry.comTo support the show please check out our sponsors!BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Cowboy Colostrum: Get 25% Off @CowboyColostrum with code Karma at www.cowboycolostrum.com. #CowboyColostrumPodEveryday Dose: Buy-One-Get-One deal. Visit everydaydose.com/CHAOS for more details.OPositiv: Take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaQuince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.HelloFresh: Go to hellofresh.com/KARMA10FM now to Get 10 Free Meals + a Free Item for Life!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Kail flies solo(…kind of) with Kristen on moral-support duty after a chaotic morning laptop saga—and it only gets realer from there. She opens up about handling internet comments, limiting the scroll, and why overspending spirals hit hard.Plus: sports updates for all the kids, Valley starting gymnastics, the hilarious underwear war, and a new round of “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” From chaotic Target runs to group-chat fails, this episode is equal parts raw, funny, and relatable.MERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaBeam: For a limited time, Beam is offering up to 35% off Glow! Just visit shopbeam.com/KARMA and use code KARMA at checkout.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Kail and Becky are back catching up on everything: Kail’s emotional trip to Texas to reconnect with her dad (and what she learned about old family stories), Becky’s big auntie news, and how becoming “the plug” for comfort buys is a real dopamine sport. Trigger note: brief discussion of suicidal ideation and mental health.MERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.OPositiv: Take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaQuince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.Perelel: Exclusive for our listeners, new customers can enjoy 20% off their first order with code: KARMA Visit perelelhealth.comRevolve: Head to REVOLVE.com/KARMA and take 15% off your first order with code KARMASee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week Kail and Becky are covering it all in true Chaos fashion. They hit on topics ranging from a relationship would you rather, TT group chats gone wrong, AI mishaps and so much more! This week's Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos involve a funeral crasher.....tune in for all the chaos you know and love.MERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Everyday Dose: Exciting news! You can now find Everyday Dose in Target stores across the country. Celebrate with a Buy-One-Get-One deal. Just buy any two Everyday Dose products at a Target store near you, and they’ll pay you back for one. Visit everydaydose.com/CHAOS for more details.Shopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS at www.skims.com and let them know we sent you by choosing podcast and Karma and Chaos in the drop down menu that follows.Willie’s: Order now at drinkwillies.com and use code KARMA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95, and enjoy life in the high country.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Kail is back for an unfiltered catch-up that has everything: plastic-surgery recovery real talk, therapy takeaways, kindergarten jitters, and the chaotic debate over whether 47 minutes of attention a day is enough. Kail shares what’s helping with swelling, inflammation, and confidence post-op. We also touch on vitamin K for newborns (do your research!) and why financial literacy matters when life gets… extra. An episode with all the chaos you know and love!MERCH IS HERE!! Shop now www.killrentertainment.com/shopTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaBrain.FM: Unlock FREE access to all of Brain.fm for 30 days by going to brain.fm/KARMA.HelloFresh: The best way to cook just got better. Go to hellofresh.com/KARMA10FM now to Get 10 Free Meals + a Free Item for Life!Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR. Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaNurture Life: head to NurtureLife.com/KARMA and use code KARMA for 55% off your first order PLUS free shipping.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week Kail and Becky are reading your comments and some are just plain diabolical. The ladies are also celebrating Becky's recent credit milestone! This week's Is It Karma or Is It Chaos submission leads the ladies to wonder; is it ever okay to judge a mom?To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaEveryday Dose: You can now find Everyday Dose in Target stores across the country. Celebrate with a Buy-One-Get-One deal. Just buy any two Everyday Dose products at a Target store near you, and they’ll pay you back for one. Visit everydaydose.com/CHAOS for more details.ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week while Kail is healing up Becky is joined by Ty of Cate & Ty Break It Down! They discuss all things parenting from the unique ways families are created, to how parenting can effect your relationship and so much more! Tune in for a heartfelt episode with tons of insight!Check out Cate & Ty Break It DownTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaOPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaMint Mobile: This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/karma.Willie’s: Order now at drinkwillies.com and use code KARMA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95, and enjoy life in the high country.Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky brings on Alessandra while Kail recovers from surgery. They get real about IVF, newborn life, and the messy beauty of building a chosen family. Becky shares the emotional moment baby Bex met his donor plus the challenges of postpartum shifts, parenting in public, and grieving your old life while embracing the new.From fertility journeys to the chaos of children’s books, this episode is all about love, family, and finding your community; no matter how unconventional it looks.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Alessandra at vibinwithabg and subscribe to Vibin And Kinda Thrivin'Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS at www.skims.com and let them know we sent you by choosing podcast and Karma and Chaos in the drop down menu that follows.Beam: For a limited time, Beam is offering my listeners our listeners up to 35% off Glow! Just visit shopbeam.com/KARMA and use code KARMA at checkout.Brain.FM: Unlock FREE access to all of Brain.fm for 30 days by going to brain.fm/KARMA.HelloFresh: The best way to cook just got better. Go to hellofresh.com/KARMA10FM now to Get 10 Free Meals + a Free Item for Life!Nurture Life: head to NurtureLife.com/KARMA and use code KARMA for 55% off your first order PLUS free shipping.Willie's: Order now at drinkwillies.com and use code KARMA for 20% off of your first order + free shipping on orders over $95, and enjoy life in the high country.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week Kail and Becky talk about Salem getaway, newborn updates with Becks, a shocking hernia misdiagnosis, bike-riding mishaps, fertility journeys, and navigating grief over past relationships. Expect unfiltered laughs, heartfelt moments, and a dash of chaos.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaQuince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week Kail and Becky are catching each other up and us. The ladies discuss everything from managing expectations, to financial literacy and how much they are both terrified of Chat GPT but use it frequently.In this week's Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos a friend's horrific comment has Kail and Becky spiraling and wondering would you wait for your friend to get pregnant?To write in your Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos submissions email info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaEveryday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this emotional episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail shares the news sparking a raw conversation about abandonment, closure, and complicated family ties. She and Becky explore what it means to seek answers from someone who may never give them and whether showing up is healing or harmful.Plus, they touch on elopement guest list drama, the Coldplay cheating scandal, and a “Karma or Chaos” bake sale takedown you won’t forget.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Smalls: For a limited time only get 35% off Smalls plus an additional 50% off your first order at smalls.com use code KARMA.Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR.HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In one of the rawest Karma and Chaos episodes yet, Becky opens up about becoming a mom as a non-birthing parent. From the emotional intensity of watching Leah give birth to grappling with unexpected feelings of disconnection, identity shifts, and grief, Becky shares it all; tears, laughs, and a whole lot of honesty.Kail and Becky also talk about how nobody prepares you for five outfit changes a day, the first tar poop and more. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unseen, or not instantly bonded as a parent , this one’s for you.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS Ultimate Bra Collection and more athttps://www.skims.comForia: Get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/KARMA OR use code KARMA at checkout.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In a delirious (and low-key emotional) episode, Kail and Becky tackle the viral 36 Questions to Fall in Love - even though they’re already trauma-bonded. They unpack everything from childhood wounds and love languages to dead dad jokes and embarrassing moments that still haunt them.Send your Karma or Chaos stories to info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaEveryday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!HappyMammoth: For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at happymammoth.com just use the code KARMA at checkout.Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Shady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week gets real. Leah - Becky's wife is dilated - contractions are happening, and somehow we still find time to talk nipple piercings, donor siblings, and whether it’s weird to donate sperm to a lesbian couple you know in real life. Plus, we unpack the parts of grief no one talks about, why breastfeeding broke us, and how monkeys might just be avoiding taxes.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaShopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma Smalls: For a limited time only get 35% off Smalls plus an additional 50% off your first order at smalls.com use code KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
ENCORE: we are running back one of your favorite episodes! (This week Kail & Becky are testing their knowledge and seeing if they are indeed smarter than a fifth grader. Later in the episode the ladies discuss finances in a relationship and all the different ways couples split them. This leads into a conversation about whether or not college is necessary and is it really all about WHO you know vs WHAT you know)To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMAQuince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Kail and Becky are back with hummingbird drama, bisexual awakenings, and a chaotic Pride Month breakdown. They weigh in on Fletcher’s controversial switch-up, the double standards working moms face, and whether bringing a third into your marriage is karma or chaos. From Twitch debates and poly relationships to parenting realness and queer identity, this episode is chaotic...of course.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaShady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses.Mint Mobile: This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/karma.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week on Karma and Chaos, labor is looming, crackers are criminal, and someone might be getting a bat tattoo.Things take a turn (as they always do) when a conversation about induction leads to imaginary attic pets, religious trauma, and why giving a queer couple a prayer book could be a little upsetting. The girls also unpack internalized homophobia, breaking generational cycles, and why Pride is about way more than parades; it’s about being loud, being seen, and knowing who you are.And don’t worry, we’ve got an Is It Karma or is it Chaos submission that includes some FBI-level iPad snooping, unsolicited screaming, and a messy friendship implosion over a rekindled marriage. Spoiler: someone got dumped, and someone got the last laugh.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaHiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS Ultimate Bra Collection and more at https://www.skims.com/karma IndaCloud: If you're 21+ use code Karma for free shipping plus 25% off your first order at indacloud.coSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode of Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into everything from hummingbird feeders to airline etiquette and co-parenting struggles. Becky shares an updates on baby prep, microdosing for mental clarity, and navigating moral dilemmas at work. They also unpack a messy listener story about daycare drama, unresolved feelings for an ex, and the fine line between fate and chaos. Expect unexpected tangents—like feet pic requests, zodiac placements, period stories, and whether eating a gallon of butter is ever the right choice. This one’s unhinged in the best way.Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a reminder to be kind, respectful, and maybe… keep your feet to yourself.To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersTempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaEveryday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaShady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.Smalls: For a limited time only get 35% off Smalls plus an additional 50% off your first order at smalls.com use code KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky and Kail ask the age-old question: Can straight women and men really be just friends? What starts as a tan-line roast turns into a layered discussion on emotional cheating, polyamory, gender roles, and raising emotionally intelligent sons. Becky reflects on her recent trip to Mexico, witnessing healthy male friendships, and the importance of representation for queer youth. Kail opens up about therapy breakthroughs, the emotional fallout of betrayal, and how one teacher changed the trajectory of her life. The duo also tackles a jaw-dropping “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” submission involving cheating, steroids, and a long-kept secret. From post-nut clarity to lesbian merch and Pride prep, this episode is raw, funny, emotional and as always absolutely unfiltered.To get your pride merch head to kaillowry.comTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.HERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karmaShady Rays: Head to shadyrays.com with code Karma for 35% OFF their premium polarized sunglasses. ASPCA: To explore coverage, visit ASPCApetinsurance.com/KARMA.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
From hummingbirds to heated opinions on grilling, Kail and Becky are deep in their lesbian merch and even deeper in conversation this week. They talk everything from syncing periods and sleeping in separate bedrooms to stamp collections, skincare routines & Botox confessions. Becky opens up about her emotional pregnancy journey, her podcast For the Hayters, and finding beauty in raw, real stories; including grief, NICU journeys, and eating disorders.The two also dive into a listener-submitted “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” about a baby daddy’s ex-wife making TikToks at a wedding chaotic or just content creation?Get your merch at kaillowry.comTo submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting our show by checking out our sponsors!Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaEveryday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You’ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You’ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!OPositiv: take proactive care of your vaginal health head to opositiv.com/karmaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this chaotic and hilarious episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky dive into everything from sleep paralysis and period drama to botched home renovations and parenting fails. Kail reveals her upcoming facelift plans and opens up about frustrations with contractor scams, while Becky shares an unfiltered update on her IVF journey and unexpected health concerns. The duo also debates car seat safety, high chair habits, baby bibs, and why you should never underestimate neck cheese. Plus, they brainstorm a heartfelt new business idea, talk facelifts vs. genetics, and end on a laugh-out-loud Karma or Chaos listener submission that involves some truly wild bathroom drama.To submit an Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.comFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors!Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your orderand 365-day returns. Shopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma Strong Cell: Go to strongcell.com and insert code (Karma with a K) to get 20% off.SKIMS: Check out the SKIMS Ultimate Bra Collection and more athttps://www.skims.com/karma Mint Mobile: This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking thebank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/karma.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
