Hidden "Traps" in Intimate Relationships

Hidden "Traps" in Intimate Relationships

Published on Dec 29
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<p>In an intimate relationship, there are some deliberate manipulation tactics. For example:</p><ol> <li>Verbally claiming to attach importance to you but refusing to communicate with you in depth. This is to cause cognitive dissonance in you. Unconsciously, you will increase your emotional investment in this relationship. Eventually, these emotions will transform into affection, leading you to fall in love with someone who originally did not meet your requirements.</li> <li>Maintaining overly close contact with other people of the opposite sex and insisting that they are just ordinary friends, and deliberately praising other women in front of you. This is to make you unconsciously enter into competition with others and feel that you can never securely possess this person no matter what.</li> <li>Since you completely lack a sense of security, you are forced to verify your partner's love from some very trivial matters. For example, you start to demand an instant reply to messages and...