Projection and self-aggrandizement in marriage.

<p>Regarding the acquisition of marital resources and self-inflation:In a marriage, if a man can obtain stable life care and emotional support, he is very likely to achieve positive improvements both physically and mentally.It is somewhat reasonable that a wife may find it difficult to continue to serve as a projection carrier after marriage. When a wife remains stagnant for a long time, in the eyes of her husband, she may gradually lose the space that allows him to fantasize and endow her with idealized traits. Therefore, a man may seek a projection object outside the marriage. Because projection requires a sense of mystery and unpredictability.Men who are indulged in this kind of projection will experience cognitive dissonance. When a man projects his ideal image onto a certain woman, in order to maintain the rationality and continuity of this projection, he will often selectively ignore or whitewash the problems existing in that woman and only be willing to see the side that conform...