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<p>我们追过的女性主义鸡汤，为什么治不好你的精神内耗？</p><p>女性主义理论落地存在断崖。这来源于知识分子的傲慢：《第二性》教会你“父权制压迫”，却没教怎么用Excel在男性主导的部门争取预算；“打破凝视”很浪漫，但不会告诉你如何把“大龄未婚”变成相亲优势。而直播间抢券时，记住主播的催促话术，这是商家教你的“稀缺性操控”。</p><p>真正的自我力量并非来源于对物质、人际关系和社会认可的否定，而恰恰是建立在这些基础之上。 通过积极参与社会标准下的生活，例如努力学习、追求外貌提升、体验深刻的爱情，来积累经验和认知。 这种通过生活体验获得的自我认知，比单纯依靠网络观点更能塑造坚实的自我。 </p><p>Why do I seem to live more like a "failure" the more I study feminism?<br>Why can't the feminist chicken soup we've followed cure your mental burnout?<br>There is a huge gap when it comes to implementing feminist theory. This stems from the arrogance of intellectuals: "The Second Sex" teaches you about "patriarchal oppression", but doesn't teach you how to use Excel to fight for a budget in a male - dominated department; "Breaking the gaze" is very romantic, but it won't tell you how to turn "being unmarried at an older age" into an advantage in blind dates. When grabbing coupons in a live - streaming room, remember the host's urging words, which is the "scarcity manipulation" t...